Overview
From the New York Times bestselling authors of The Myth of Normal, a path forward for parents and adult children locked in a difficult relationship
What happens when the people who shaped you, or the ones you shaped, are the very ones you can’t seem to reach—or can’t bear to be close to anymore?
In Hello Again, physician and trauma expert Gabor Maté teams up with his son Daniel to illuminate the uniquely charged bond between parents and their adult children—a relationship defined by love, history, and imbalances that never quite disappear.
Drawing on decades of clinical experience, hard-won personal insight, and their widely attended workshops, the Matés show why this “set menu, no substitutions” relationship so often becomes the site of recurring misunderstandings, resentment, withdrawal, or explosive conflict—even when both sides genuinely want things to be better.
This book doesn’t promise a tidy reconciliation or a “happy ending.” Instead, it offers something more realistic and more hopeful: a fresh start—whether that means rebuilding closeness, establishing steadier boundaries, or finding peace at a distance.
Inside you’ll find:
For anyone who has ever thought, “I love them—so why is this so hard?” Hello Again is a wise, steady companion toward clearer seeing, truer connection, and lasting change.
What happens when the people who shaped you, or the ones you shaped, are the very ones you can’t seem to reach—or can’t bear to be close to anymore?
In Hello Again, physician and trauma expert Gabor Maté teams up with his son Daniel to illuminate the uniquely charged bond between parents and their adult children—a relationship defined by love, history, and imbalances that never quite disappear.
Drawing on decades of clinical experience, hard-won personal insight, and their widely attended workshops, the Matés show why this “set menu, no substitutions” relationship so often becomes the site of recurring misunderstandings, resentment, withdrawal, or explosive conflict—even when both sides genuinely want things to be better.
This book doesn’t promise a tidy reconciliation or a “happy ending.” Instead, it offers something more realistic and more hopeful: a fresh start—whether that means rebuilding closeness, establishing steadier boundaries, or finding peace at a distance.
Inside you’ll find:
- A clear map of why the parent/adult-child bond is uniquely triggering—and why it’s also uniquely repairable
- Parent and adult-child “prototype” patterns that reveal what’s really running the show beneath the surface
- New ways of seeing old dynamics that allow for greater self-regulation and cleaner communication
- Boundary guidance that protects dignity without hardening into grievance
- Paths forward that promote safety, including less contact when that is the healthiest choice
- A realistic, self-honoring approach to accountability, grief, and forgiveness
For anyone who has ever thought, “I love them—so why is this so hard?” Hello Again is a wise, steady companion toward clearer seeing, truer connection, and lasting change.
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