Overview
A lucid memoir reckoning with grief and the search for understanding in the wake of a sisterās suicide.
Rebecca Spiegel is working as a teacher in New Orleans when she learns of her sister Emilyās death by suicide. Shocked, she flies back to Philadelphia. To family. To funeral preparations. To the service. Only after she leaves her parentsā house does the shock give way to grief.
In the years that follow, Spiegel embarks on a physical, mental, and emotional voyage. She visits Emilyās dorm, digs through her computer. She parses old journal entries and emails. She recalls Emilyās visit to New Orleans mere days before her death, wondering what signs she might have missed. In documenting the last traces of her sisterās life, Spiegel also confronts their parentsā failings, as well as her familyās history of depression, anxiety, OCD, addiction, and disordered eating. She faces her own regrets too. āI wish I had untangled myself from myself,ā she writes of her sisterās final visit. āI wish I had been able to see that I was okay and she wasnāt.ā
With each powerful detail resurfaced, Spiegel attempts to put into words what is incomprehensible. She plumbs the depths of her loss in an effort to understand her sister, to uncover logic where it is most elusive. What she finds instead is that there is no narrative on the other side of grief like this. There is no answer, no easy resolutionāonly those that leave, and those that keep living. Unflinchingly honest, visceral, and raw, this courageous elegy lays bare the hard realities of surviving the loss of a loved one.
This book title, Without Her (A Chronicle of Grief and Love), ISBN: 9781571311962, by Rebecca Spiegel, published by Milkweed Editions (September 10, 2024) is available in paperback. Our minimum order quantity is 25 copies. All standard bulk book orders ship FREE in the continental USA and delivered in 4-10 business days.
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